‘Why are we alive and my son is dead?’ wept Nadia Yakivna, 80 years old as she views her home reduced to rubble in Irpin, Ukraine on May 7, 2022. She and her daughter, Svetlana Magyrovks, 58 returned the day after her son’s funeral to salvage items from the home and clean up. The town was liberated from Russian forces and slowly people are returning to rebuild.
They had evacuated to Mukachevo and returned after two months searching for the body of Alexander Stukalo, only finding him in a Kyiv morgue with assistance from a telegram app channel.
In early March they hid in their basement but were very frightened after the first bombing at an apartment building across the street and moved to a larger bunker. During the next air raid when the planes flew very low directly overhead, they ran in their nightclothes to that basement, but Alexander stayed in the house where he died. His body was eventually found in the wreckage at the end of April.
Nadia loved flowers so very much, and she now looks at tulips blooming amid the debris in her once pristine garden. Svetlana gave her mother cleaning tasks to help focus on something other than the constant grief and tears. It’s the only thing that calms her, but she still quietly weeps sitting at the scrubbed kitchen table for lunch of vegetables preserved in a jar they found in the ruins.
‘I’ll never forget the sound of the bombing,’ said Svetlana as she helped her mom navigate the debris on their walkway to rest for the night at a nearby apartment. They will again return tomorrow to pick up the pieces of shattered lives.